Safety During A Violent Incident

• If an argument seems unavoidable, try to have it in a room or area that has access to an exit and not in a bathroom, kitchen, or anywhere near weapons.
• Practice how to get out safely: what doors, windows, elevators, stair wells or fire escapes to use.
• Keep purse and car keys ready in order to leave quickly.
• Tell a friend or neighbor about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from the home.
• Design a lights on/off system to let neighbors know if you are in trouble.
• Teach children how to use the telephone to contact the police and the fire department.
• Put all important numbers- including the domestic violence hotline- on speed dial.
• Use a code with children or friends so they can call for help.
• Teach some of these strategies to some/all of the children.
• Use judgment and intuition. If the situation is very serious, give the abuser what is wanted.

IF YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER FORGET THE PLAN - GET OUT!

Note: Due to ineligibility or funding issues, not all services are available in every case

ALL SERVICES ARE CONFIDENTIAL AND ARE PROVIDED FREE OF CHARGE