Personalized Safety Plan

Safety During A Violent Incident

A If an argument seems unavoidable, try to have it in a room or area that has access to an exit and not in a bathroom, kitchen, or anywhere near weapons.

B Practice how to get out safely: what doors, windows, elevators, stair wells or fire escapes to use.

C Keep purse and car keys ready in order to leave quickly.

D Tell a friend or neighbor about the violence and request they call the police if they hear suspicious noises coming from the home.

E Design a lights on/off system to let neighbors know if you are in trouble.

F Teach children how to use the telephone to contact the police and the fire department.

G Put all important numbers- including the domestic violence hotline- on speed dial.

H Use a code with children or friends so they can call for help.

I Teach some of these strategies to some/all of the children.

J Use judgment and intuition. If the situation is very serious, give the abuser what is wanted.

IF YOUR LIFE IS IN DANGER FORGET THE PLAN - GET OUT!

 What To Take When Leaving

Preparing To Leave

Safety In The Home

Safety With An Order Of Protection

Safety On The Job